Monday, February 28, 2011

10 Months Old!

Owen turns 10 months today! It amazes me how much he has changed and grown over the past ten months. Some photos of him as a newborn came on our screensaver the other day. In some ways, it feels like just yesterday he was that tiny, but in other ways it feels like it's been so long. What a wonderful addition to the family!

He's perfected the army crawl and super quick as he moves about the floor. Two of his favorite things to go after are the computer/desk area and the cat's food and water dishes. Sigh. He loves to smile and laugh, especially at the antics of his big brother. He's started to be more interested in feeding himself, so we've been working on expanding his finger food repertoire. And he's definitely proven that he's all boy--when he's given the chance, he goes right for the remote controls. Mama doesn't stand a chance of ever getting the remotes in an all-boy household!





Owen is on the move!

Thursday, February 24, 2011

ABC's

Brennan has really been getting into the alphabet lately. He loves to sing his own version the song and loves to make his music table sing the ABC's. He also loves to play with the alphabet magnets we have for the fridge. Only, he loves to transfer them to various magnetic locations around the house. In an effort to encourage the enthusiasm but stifle the magnet relocation, I gave him one of the cookie sheets to hold the magnets and provide him a more contained environment to enjoy his beloved magnets.

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Signs that I'm getting old (or that I'm a parent)

1. I much prefer wearing dress pants to jeans.

2. Music no longer provides the soundtrack to my life. I don’t find self-expression in someone else’s lyrics or a driving melody. I enjoy music, but it doesn’t speak for me the way it used to.

3. I get sick of the usual rock radio stations really quickly and switch over to…

a. talk radio (receding hairline)

b. A book on CD (getting gray), or…

c. Classical music (start working on the eulogy)

4. If there is a soundtrack to my life now, it’s the sound of my kids’ voices.

5. I like to look at pictures of Brennan when he was a baby. It gets me kind of emotional because I feel like my little boy is growing up way too fast.

6. At my next birthday I’ll cross the last of the you-can’t-do-that-until-you’re-x-years-old thresholds.

7. I like documentaries and BBC productions more than most action movies.

8. I visit cnn.com, the Richmond Times-Dispatch page and foxnews.com as much as espn.com and si.com. I also watch news programs on TV more than sports programs.

9. It's 11:30pm. I'd rather go to bed than think of a tenth item that make this list feel complete. Symmetry and tidy endings are for young people!

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

Monday, February 14, 2011

In the Air

There's something wonderful when the temperature climbs into the 60's. Even though it's February, it definitely felt like spring was just around the corner! We had all the windows open in the house and got to spend a huge chunk of time enjoying the backyard. Owen loved crawling all over the deck and chewing on the outdoor toys and balls. Brennan had a blast playing in his sandbox, making sand castles, and then racing around the yard, banging sticks on trees. I love this feeling of spring in the air!

Monday, February 07, 2011

Competing Spoons

Owen has been a bit reluctant to drink his bottle and eat his solids the past week or so. He seems to do best when he is able to hold something in his hand. It provides enough distraction that he's able to eat without much problem. Thankfully, his appetite seems to be coming back a little today (maybe it decreased due to his cold/cough or teething...who knows?). One of his favorite distractions while eating is holding his own spoon. He loves to stick it in his mouth and gnaw on it, particularly when I'm trying to give him food on a different spoon. Today, our competing spoons really created an interesting eating adventure!

Friday, February 04, 2011

What the Church Should Be

One thing that I love about not working (outside the home, that is) during this season of life is that I get to attend our church's women's ministry, Thrive. This semester, we are going through the book of John. The teaching we receive every week is like water quenching the dryness of the desert. I love leaving feeling refreshed and filled up.

Yesterday, we discussed John 4, the ministry of Jesus to the Samaritan woman. We dove into the topic of what it means to cross human judgmental boundaries to truly love others. And that got me thinking about what that means for the church. As we pondered the idea of people being turned off the church, my table leader, Cathy, came up with a wonderful description of what the church should be: a hospital instead of a beauty pageant.

I love the hospital analogy. Hospitals are places where sick people come to get well. They are filled with the broken, the infirm, the dying. People waiting for the touch of a physician. Beauty pageants are filled with plastic people, fake smiles plastered on their faces; everyone looks the same, with no real depth behind the lovely exterior (a little overly simplified, but go with me on this one).

I find myself longing for the hospital. I know I am in need of one. At least for me, nothing has brought my sin, my brokenness to the forefront like being a parent. I find as Brennan's latent sin nature awakens, all the sin that I've shoved deep down inside comes bubbling up as well. Two strong sin natures can't compete for long before something needs to give! And this where I find my need for the hospital is greatest. A place to find healing. A place to have the brokenness caused by sin mended again. A place to meet the Great Physician.

I know I'm not alone in the desire for a hospital. Wouldn't it be great if the church began to foster an atmosphere of transparency and security, inviting people to truly come as they are, sin and baggage and all? We shouldn't be afraid of admitting our own sin or hearing others admit theirs. Sin happens. To everyone. Rather than set ourselves up as judge and jury, why not let people know that we've heard of a great hospital where we get to meet with best physician of all?

The Samaritan woman went to that hospital. The outcast, the adulteress, of a race labeled ceremonially unclean. Jesus came to where she was. He didn't judge. He showed her love. She received His love. And, in turn, she became the catalyst for many in her town to believe in Christ.

Imagine the ramifications. The possibilities are endless if only we open ourselves up to receive our own healing from the Great Physician. And what if we then extend the same love and mercy to others in need of that same touch from Christ? Pretty exciting to think about!

Tuesday, February 01, 2011

Identity

Back when we saw the "Behold the Lamb of God" concert, one of the special guests was Jason Gray (props because he's also a fellow Minnesotan!). He performed one of his new songs called "I Am New". I fell in love with it immediately and have lately been really drawn to this song. It's such a fabulous reminder of who we are in Christ. Some days it feels like I need to listen to this song every hour to help myself dwell in the truth of my identity of Christ. Definitely take a listen; you won't regret it!

Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!
--2 Corinthians 5:17


I Am New

Now I won't deny
The worst you could say about me
But I'm not defined
By mistakes that I've made
Because God says of me

I am not who I was
I am being remade
I am new
I am chosen and holy
And I'm dearly loved
I am new

Who I thought I was
And who I thought I had to be
I had to give them both up
Cause neither were willing
To ever believe

I am not who I was
I am being remade
I am new
I am chosen and holy
And I'm dearly loved
I am new

Too long I have lived
In the shadows of shame
Believing that there
Was no way I could change
But the one who is making everything new
Doesn't see me the way that I do
He doesn't see me the way that I do

I am not who I was
I am being remade
I am new
Dead to the old man,I'm coming alive
I am new

Forgiven beloved
Hidden in Christ
Made in the image of the Giver of Life
Righteous and holy
Reborn and remade
Accepted and worthy, this is our new name
This is who we are now...

By: Jason Gray, Joel Hanson